I feel like every 6 months I'm needing to come up with a new chore motivation system for the kids... they just get bored and need something different. I guess I'm the same way! :) Since our
last chore system was in a list form, I thought we'd try something a little more hands on this time. I liked
these 'job jars', so I just tweaked that idea a bit to fit what my kids needed...

Each of the kids have a jar (even Jake!)- they have their daily chore sticks (colored yellow) and their weekly chore sticks (colored red). Their daily chores also have M, T, W, Th, or F written on the ends. When they get a chore done, they turn the popsicle stick upside down. At the end of the week on Friday or Saturday, we still do Family Movie Night as their reward for completing all their chores. By Friday evening, all the sticks in their jar should be turned, colored side down. Jake's jar is more for practice... I don't really care whether he does them or not, but if the time is right, and he's in a helpful mood, he pulls a stick from his jar and I encourage or help him complete it. There are also "Extra Jobs" that can be replacements for missed daily chores earlier in the week, or they can be completed and redeemed for a couple pieces of candy to have during movie night (although we always still have some sort of big treat, like cookies, or popcorn). The Star Sticks are for me to put in the kids jars for various good deeds or positive attitudes when doing their chores, or whatever I want. Since we're not doing the OK Mommy bucket anymore, these are another way I can choose to physically reward the kids for being proactive, obedient, or working hard. Just like the extra chores, they can exchange their star sticks for pieces of candy at movie night. The girls chores are mostly the same as before on our chore lists - Jake's chores include things like putting silverware away (which he did yesterday and didn't even need my help!), emptying the downstairs little trash can, putting his trains away, dusting the coffee tables, etc.
On the back of the girls job jars I've also taped on a "Don't Forget!" list - we are
trying to improve our habits so there are 3 things we're currently working on-
1. Rinse your own dishes and put them in the dishwasher
2. Put your dirty clothes in the hamper
3. Pick up after yourself (toys, books, papers, etc)
So, ya, pretty basic stuff - life skills really- but things that even us adults aren't always quick to do (maybe even me! oh noes!). I've been watching for these 3 things in particular when giving the girls star sticks.
Switching gears... we bought a Groupon to go to this
indoor amusement park in Phoenix... I had a discount off the groupon as well, so it was super cheap - 15 dollars for our whole family to go. So on Saturday afternoon we tried it out... it felt like a mad house there... they had a rather large stack of groupon papers at the front register - so it was probably abnormally busy because so many people were just there because they bought this deal. All I can say is that the kids had fun, but I think you'd be crazy to pay what the normal price is to get in - it's usually 15 dollars PER person. In my opinion, not worth it for this place. But like I said, the kids LOVED it, so maybe I shouldn't be such a bummer about it. Emma did really love the laser tag - she got 2nd place!





I decided I really needed to get my act together and start doing some more teaching activities with Jake, especially now that Emma and Becca are back in school. I feel like I've been so disconnected from understanding how well he knows his colors, numbers, etc - for example, he counts all the time, but it's not really consistent... a few times I've heard him count to 9 correctly, but most times it's more like "1, 2, 3, 4, 6, 9, 7, 2". haha. Anyway, same goes for his colors - I've been working with him casually on these things, but I'd like to start a more structured "preschool time" with him while the girls are gone. When it comes to one on one teaching time, each kid has gotten less and less of it. Lucky for Emma and not so lucky for Claire. :) But in an effort to begin to redeem myself, for our first attempt at 'Jake preschool', I made simple little color sacks, and then we gathered a basket full of small toys that are a solid color. He sorted each item into their correct bag and we talked a lot about colors along the way. It was fun afterwards dumping out each of the bags and seeing our rainbow of items! How pretty. :)





Jake's played with these bags and the basket of items a few times since- and even Becca loved sorting the stuff too. From this I'm left still a bit confused on whether or not Jake knows his colors well. A few times during the activity he was able to tell me the color name of each of the bags when asked. But other times, he would say that the red was blue and that the yellow was green, or whatnot. I'm thinking that he just gets lazy sometimes in his answers, but otherwise, he knows all his colors pretty well. Next up for mommy-jake preschool is numbers! :)