This month Ben has had his weekends off of work... and it's the best! We've been trying to make every weekend count while Ben gets to spend them with us. And my cute Ben turned 30 yesterday! wooeee! 30. That's pretty awesome. So, over the weekend and yesterday we were busy with birthday celebrating and family time. Love it, love it...
Saturday was a full one - we spent most of our morning working in our backyard. We thoroughly weeded, and then we mowed our lawn! This is the first time we've mowed it... honestly it hasn't really needed a mow that badly because the poor grass has been half-dead since we moved in. But we cut what little grass was there with our push mower we bought recently... the girls helped too. :) Then we fertilized and reseeded it... we're
hoping that within a few weeks our grass will start to look better and in the meantime we're trying to keep it well watered while our little seedlings try to grow. Bottom line: we don't know what the heck we are doing, but we are trying, and that's how you learn right?

In the late-afternoon I picked up our babysitter and Ben and I headed out for a good long date - in honor of Ben's birthday! To start off our fun, we went golfing together! Ben loves golfing, but the poor guy hasn't been since starting residency, so I thought he might appreciate being able to get out to golf and to have me show a little interest in the sport he adores. We just went to a very inexpensive 9-hole walking course nearby and I did alright! At least, I never lost a ball and most of the time I hit it straight. And I liked being able to hit from the women's tees because they were WAY closer. It made me feel like I was already making progress even before hitting the ball. :)
Hmmm... I swear I looked a lot cooler hitting my driver than I do in this pic
Ben 'cursing' 'cause his ball was veering left.. in his defense, he hadn't golfed in almost a year :)After golfing we finished up our date with dinner at P.F. Changs (oh how I wish I could make those delicious lettuce wraps at home) and then to see the movie Date Night (with Ben's free movie tickets that he won at work! awesome!). So, it was a fun night! Wouldn't it be great to go out like that
every weekend?!
On Sunday we went on a morning walk/bike ride through the neighborhood... we've really been liking this lately because we don't have church till 1. So, it gets us up and partially ready earlier and it's a nice way to spend the morning, as opposed to bumming around at home (although, that can also be nice). We end up having pretty amusing adventures on our walks together...

Becca's turned into a real pro on her little trike... she's definitely ready for a bigger bike
We noticed that one of the neighbors had this little cactus with button eyes... it made Emma laugh so hard!
We stopped at a little park on our outing... I love Becca's face in this pic as her daddy uses her as a pillow
And Emma enjoyed climbing the trees

Monday was Ben's official birthday, so we celebrated with the traditional dinner (chosen by the birthday boy), presents, and cake and ice cream. Ben chose to have steak, baked sweet potatoes, and salad for dinner... this choice came as absolutely no surprise to me. I had the steak ready and marinated, so when Ben got home he grilled it up for us. During birthday dinners we go around the table and share things we love about the birthday person... with Ben this was easy... there is so much to love about him. Here's
some of his
many admirable qualities:
Very smart and a fantastic doctor
The BEST daddy
The BEST husband
Thinks of others before himself
An amazing cook
Loves a clean house and OFTEN helps to keep it that way
A great decorator... anything nice in our home has Ben behind it
Fun and spontaneous!
Loves reading and teaches the kids to love it tooAfter dinner, he opened his presents - the girls each picked out a treat for him and Becca drew a picture of him... her people drawings are really funny.

He also got a Memory Jar. I did this for my dad at Christmas, and thought Ben would like it too. Thank you to the many family and friends who contributed their Ben memories! Right now the jar has about 6 months worth (one per day), so I'll supplement it more this week so that he has a year's worth.

His big birthday gift this year was an ice cream maker (we got the kind that attaches to our KitchenAid mixer). Ben (and I) have been wanting one for a while. He opened this gift earlier so that I could have ice cream made for his birthday. We made
cinnamon ice cream... it was to die for!! really. And since this was the 30th birthday, I thought I should commit a little more and really make a cake (instead of just using a box mix... which I often do). So, I made a
Coconut Layer Cake - it's been years since I made this recipe because it takes some time... but, oh, it is worth the effort! It has a lemon filling too... coconut and lemon... mmmm. And with cinnamon ice cream. Pretty darn good.
3 candles... one per decade :)
Happy Birthday sweetie!